Monday, June 22: Good evening and big hugs to you. I’m so glad you dropped by for another laundry room cocktail hour. Please, have a seat in my comfortable chair. I’m so anxious to hear about your week. Would you like a glass of Cabernet Sauvignon or a cold Budweiser? Usually I buy Chinese beer, but I’ve decided it tastes a little too watery for my taste. I must confess, I already started celebrating a bit before your arrival. Just a wee glass of wine, or two. I’m hoping that will make me more relaxed, and more ready to hear all you have to say.
It’s plenty warm out here in the laundry room, but it doesn’t seem quite as humid as usual, so maybe we can bear it for a while. The sun is shining, a rarity in Nanning, so we might want to catch some of the rays, even if they’re coming in at a low angle. Do you agree it isn’t so bad out here tonight? I’m quite enjoying it because I’ve been sitting inside in air conditioning all day. I’ve been huddled under a blanket, so it’s nice to be outside enjoying the summer evening.
I took some pictures with my iPhone this week during several walks I took around the campus. They’re here in the post so you can see what my daily walks look like. Well, not quite daily, but at least four times a week. I had a bizarre thing happen this week, most notably that a young Chinese man on a bicycle tried to proposition me. This happened quite regularly in Oman, and everywhere I’ve been in the Middle East, but it has never happened before in China. I was quite shocked by it. I’ll tell more about it, with a picture of the perpetrator, once I leave China. Don’t worry, I WILL tell you all about it eventually.
We should celebrate because it’s been a three-day weekend for the Dragon Boat Festival. I’m always happy to have an extra day in which I don’t have to work, even if I do absolutely nothing to celebrate the actual holiday.
The Dragon Boat Festival was on Saturday, June 20. Here’s what China Travel Guide has to say about it: This festival has been held annually for over 2,000 years and commemorates the patriotic poet Qu Yuan (340-278 BC). It also acts as a chance for Chinese people to build their bodies and dispel diseases. Qu Yuan was a minister from the State of Chu and supported a fight against the powerful state of Qin. Because of this, he was slandered by an aristocrat and exiled by the King. He wrote many passionate poems to show his love for his country, and is therefore regarded as a famous poet in China’s history. In 278 BC, after finishing his last masterpiece, he drowned himself in the river rather than see his country occupied and conquered by the State of Qin.
On hearing of Qu Yuan’s death, the locals were in distress and fishermen searched for his body by sailing their boats down the river. Other people threw food such as eggs and food like zongzi into the river to attract fish and other animals from destroying Qu Yuan’s body. Later, many people imitated these acts to show their respect for this great patriotic poet and this practice continues today.
Because Qu Yuan died on the fifth day of the fifth lunar month, people decided to commemorate him on that day every year. Dragon boat racing and eating zongzi have become the central customs of the festival (China Travel Guide: Dragon Boat Festival).
Though the Dragon Boat Festival sounds like a lovely holiday, I didn’t do a thing to celebrate. I’ve traveled on every single National Holiday since I’ve been in China, and this is the first one where I’ve stayed put. I no longer have the energy to fight the huge crowds that always travel in China on these holidays. I guess I’m finally starting to feel like often I feel in the U.S. on the national holidays. I never travel on Memorial Day, Fourth of July, or Labor Day if I can help it. Sometimes I travel on Thanksgiving or Christmas, but we always try to figure out how to get around the crowds on these holidays.
On Saturday afternoon, my student Azura, the one who took me to the apartment restaurant several weeks ago, texted me: “Hi Cathy. It’s Azura. Are you at school or travelling to another city? My parents coming school, and my mother made some different kinds of ‘zong zi’ for you. ‘zong zi’ is traditional food for Dragon Boat Festival.” After some back and forth emails, Azura had her father drive her to my apartment so she could drop off the zongzi.
Zongzi is pyramid-shaped glutinous rice wrapped in reed or bamboo leaves. In the north part of the country, people favor the jujube as filling, while the south favors sweetened bean paste, fresh meat, or egg yolk. The zongzi Azura’s mom made have quail eggs and beef in them, and even some bones!
Eating the zongzi was the closest I came to celebrating the holiday. I’ve been on the go so much over the past number of weekends that I’ve been happy to stay inside all weekend, reading some blogs, writing some blogs, editing some pictures, and watching endless episodes of Revenge. I also walked every day, and although I’m walking 3 miles a day at a fast pace and sweating buckets, in addition to trying to watch what I eat, I still can’t seem to drop a single pound. It’s so discouraging!
So, tell me about your week. What did you do? Did you travel at all? Did you enjoy the Summer Solstice? Did you go to any outdoor concerts? Did you make any lists? Did you plan any trips for the later part of the summer? How is work? Did you have an easy or stressful week? Did you make a new friend? Or did you have a conflict with anyone? Did you have too high expectations in a friendship and did the person let you down? Did worries keep you from sleeping? Or did you experience ecstatic joy or pleasure?
I know it’s been a difficult time in the U.S. with those senseless and hateful killings in a Charleston Church. Why is there still such hatred in this world? Why don’t people try harder to understand one another, and to love one another? I find people are becoming increasingly isolated. It’s a difficult world we live in, so why don’t we all work harder to make it easier, and more loving? A lot of people have written about this very American racist crisis, and I don’t have anything more to say except that people continue to horrify and disappoint me. I think most people do have hearts, but we don’t read about them much in the news, do we?
Here in China, life goes on. My students continue to be kind to me, and they reinforce every day that they are the best thing about this job. When I leave here, I will write about the pros and cons of working at SCIC, and I will also write about what I’m going to miss and not miss in China. I look forward to writing that post after I leave the country.
I really didn’t do much at all this week except finish my last English Interest Course, “Road Trip American Style.” This course is not much of anything except having the students watch movies. We watched Planes, Trains and Automobiles, Little Miss Sunshine, and finally, Chevy Chase National Lampoon Vacation. The students seemed to enjoy the movies. The classes are really a waste of our time and the students’ time, in my opinion. Since they’re on Tuesday afternoons and our last class was this week, now I’ll be finished every day of the week by noon, except for Mondays. We only have two more teaching weeks remaining, and then it will be exam week. Thank goodness, as I think we’re all ready to be finished with this semester.
Besides getting totally hooked on the TV series, Revenge, I’ve also been watching Grey’s Anatomy and Mistresses. I’m still plodding away on Sandcastle Girls. The book is good, but for some reason I seem to be too antsy to read much. By the time I go to bed, I read about a page or two, and then I’m asleep.
I did attend a small birthday celebration for Nancy, one of the long-time teachers at SCIC. Here she is with her huge birthday cake, which I was able to partake in.
There really is nothing else of interest to tell you about this week. It’s been deadly dull, to be honest. Maybe I should have traveled this weekend after all. I get so bored when there’s nowhere to go and nothing to do. Once I’m back in my home in Virginia, I’ll be able to find plenty to do, I hope!
I hope you all have a great week. Please, I hope you have something more interesting to tell me than I had to report! I need some saucy news! Anything new and adventurous will do. I can live vicariously through you. 🙂
Peace and love to you all. 🙂